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Name : XXX

Birth Date : XX/YY/ZZZZ

Birth Place : XXX, XXX

Birth Time : 4:25 PM ( 16:25 )

Gender : Male

BIRTH CHART ANALYSIS

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Dear XXX,

This report is not computer generated. It is written and structured exclusively for you. Your search for true self is a life long path and I hope this analysis would be a good help towards your integration.

Sincerely,

Pelin

YOUR PSYCHOLOGICAL TYPE

You live the fate destined for you in your birth chart in aspects of your personality. You respond to happenings in alliance with your psychological type. The psychological type is not set in stone, it will develop and change throughout our life and our self or soul will strive to accomplish balance and unity. If we do not notice this on our own, life itself will try to put us in balance. You will see the defining characteristics of your psychological type below, finding your strengths and weaknesses help you in the direction of finding your ‘inner self’.

Your Strong Areas or Your Superior Function:

Your intuition is exceptionally strong and you have the ability to connect unrelated events and see what lies beneath each case. Although this may not be scientifically proven, you detect the important factors concerning any occasion by using your sixth sense. You have the potential to reap material and spiritual benefits from ideas that the general crowd would not have the courage to follow through. You can use your developed intuition in practical aspects of life as well. You are in tune with beauty and nature and should not deem them unimportant.

You are a very romantic person. Your active imagination gives meaning to even the most ordinary events, and you seek goals and potential in every experience you go through. Your most important strength is your creativity, with which you discover possibilities that others do not notice.

Your understanding nature and thoughtfulness keeps you close to other people. Your creative perspective and opinions will improve your one on one relationships. On the other hand, your empathy and idealism makes it difficult for you to draw a line with your surroundings and lead you to dwell in others’ problems. You may be too sensitive, and not being able to set boundaries can become a problem. Your romantic nature does not accept that the opposing side can also make mistakes in relationships; you give an imaginary face to them that you want to believe in and refuse to face the true facts. You need a more objective perspective. Not all people have such a strong sixth sense, thus you can not expect them to understand you through telepathy; you have to be more open with them.

There is a lightheartedness and enthusiasm in your interpretation of life and you see your experiences as valuable lessons. Bad days will not get to you, because you now that many opportunities are waiting for you.

You may also use this vision and sympathy in solving problems of your loved ones’ or of people who are need of your help. A conflict you may be having is using your talents only in the material world, for material gains. You would bring a humanistic level to your supernatural talent of seeing potential, your incredible intuition, sensitivity and caring nature, if you use them towards helping others solve their problems. You will face deeper and more meaningful lessons while solving these dilemmas of life.

Accomplishments for the sake of a sense of security, that have no potential for future gain, are as bad as death itself for you. Right when you may gain the results of an accomplishment, you may leave it for another that is more interesting and more appealing to your soul.

You have developed a habit of living in the future, always after different projects and the next accomplishment. You will never have a stagnant character; you will always see your accomplishments as temporary and will only use them as steps towards the next. You are always looking for something better, greater and more satisfying.

You are highly capable of being successful in musical and theatrical fields and are talented in fine and visual arts. Due to your character and mimics you are endowed with very special talents.

Undeveloped or inferior traits:

The weight you put on the intuitive aspect of your life enables you to forget the limitations of this world. You tend to forget the daily realities, duties and responsibilities because they kill your much valued visions. You can not stand the dullness of any routine job. Perhaps secretly, from deep within, you feel that you deserve something more special and prestigious. At the same time, instead of focusing on one accomplishment at a time, you tend to take future potentials from various directions. This makes you someone involved in many fields yet also one not achieving permanent results. Your “I’ll grow up one day” syndrome can be accepted during your youth yet as the years go by it is difficult to say the same thing.

You do not like mechanical instruments that need constant repair. Routine things like car repair or keeping tabs on household expenditures are nerve wrecking for you. Yet if you ignore this aspect of life, you may not always find others that will cover on your behalf and you may find yourself in chaotic situations.

You should make more effort to be in harmony with the physical/sensual world. This effort will benefit your physical aspects that have been ignored and suppressed. The fact that you are not in tune with your body makes you afraid and shy in sexual fields. You will be more content if you relax and let yourself free. Not giving much importance to your physical needs may be due to your upbringing. If you can learn how to live as any mortal in this world that is not always as romantic as you wish it to be, you will reap the benefits.

On the other hand you are being neglectful towards your body or have too many expectations from it. You tend to forget to rest or may not have a healthy diet. You have an energetic build and may not have a high risk of health problems yet because of your habits there is a strong chance that your body will have negative reactions. You most likely have realized that when you neglect your body you become prone to sickness. Yet the solution to this is not to become a hypochondriac or impose difficult diets and exercise programs on your body. This would be solving excessive problems with excessive solutions that are harmful.

YOUR SHADOW (QUALITIES YOU DISOWN)

You have a side to you, apart from your personality that you have come to accept, which you have suppressed and belittled. This side is called ‘shadow’ in analytical psychology. This is our side that differentiates us from others, and is sometimes in conflict with our personality yet also from time to time supportive of it. The topic touched upon below is the simultaneous existence of our qualities out in the open and under our shadow.

There is a side of you that emphasize others’ opinions while you display an independent personality who does not give much consideration to what others have to say:

You can not tolerate being told what to do. You are often in conflict with the social values and opinions as regulations should not threaten your sense of independence. You want to set your own rules. Thus, you are not in alignment with traditions, authority figures and establishments. This may seem egocentric and selfish to others yet even though it does not fit the norm, you try to explain the importance of living life as who you truly are. Some may find you thoughtless and self centered, only these would be the kind of people whom you don’t take much notice of to begin with.

Your lively personality charms others and you enjoy spending time with them yet you do not alter your beliefs and independence to make others happy, even for your most loved ones. Time has not yet shown you the consequences of avoiding sacrifices, and this has given you the impression that all your visions and rules are in place. Because you do not give much thought to what others think, although more traditionalists do not trust you, they find themselves obligated to respect your ideas.

The shadow you create because of your dependence on your own vision is also the consideration you give to what others say. The shadow figure displays a dependent character that lacks personality and it surfaces in your conscience as the need of constant confirmation from others. Even if the second opinion may be criticism, you enjoy it since your worst fear is being ignored. You actually have a chameleon side to you that enables you to blend in with your surroundings; you are not as independent as you seem from the outside. This secret dependency actually promotes your creativity and steers it towards a more original character that you want the others to notice. Something inside you not only tells you to get recognition but also to make others happy. Even though you may seem distant to what others think, you are trying to take a direction in which you will achieve recognition and approval.

No matter how hard you try not to accept others’ opinions and help in work matters, in reality you are dependent on them. This deepens your conflict in dealing with the limitations and restrictions surrounding you. You might have to face certain challenges on your own.

On the other hand, you embrace others’ feelings without being aware of it. You can take away others’ sadness and pain without noticing. In this aspect your shadow is like a fortuneteller, there is a collective unconsciousness behind many of your original ideas. This is quite an extraordinary quality, since your creativity feeds from sources even greater than you. You should not interpret this as a hit to your individuality or a reflection of the old qualities of the outside world. It actually means that you have a universal vision that is also unique. Your dependency on others may be due to classic socialization and the sense of belonging as well as a deep connection with the collective unconsciousness.

You should take advantage of the friendship and intimacy; you do not have to take it into a specific direction. You will see that being whole with your shadow and ego will lead you to accept and understand your common sides and dependency on others, as well as become an individual with both your positive and negative characteristics.

The Ordinary beneath the Extraordinary:

As I mentioned before, you admire marginal and original people, yet despise ones who live an ordinary life, especially people that have a lifestyle that is dictated by the media and advertisements. You make small sacrifices in the outside world in order to keep your originality. You demand the world to adapt to your attitude and not the other way around, and surprisingly your surroundings comply with you. You are wise enough not to get involved in situations that your surroundings can not tolerate. You probably have been deemed abnormal or eccentric by your close circles.

On the other hand, rejection and criticism affects you more than you may think. You have a provocative nature and you dislike dull and stagnant people and environments. After the initial excitement of provocation you feel unhappy and lonely because you are more in need of emotional comfort than you might think.

We generally reflect our shadows upon others, and we choose to blame and get frustrated with our sides that we can not accept and that are weak. At the same time we become mysteriously influenced by people carrying these qualities. Did you ever think why this person, who lacks originality, is very non-dramatic and leads an ordinary life, is so appealing to you???

Everything in your mind has two opposing sides. Despite how important it is for you to be independent and original, you can not see the whole picture without accepting the opposite side. If you accept this quality of yours and be less defensive about it you can channel your energy into more creative fields rather than using it towards your aggression.

Desire for Constant Progress:

Although your emotions will be tamed in time a side of you will still desire constant improvement in the conditions. Once you have obtained what you want, you immediately want the next, the better version. This keeps you from being content with what you have, and spend what you have earned. You constantly think of the potentials you have, which is a vice as much as it is a gift. This creates dissatisfaction and uncertainty, and you think that you and everyone around you can do better. The calm and secure environment that appeals to most is meaningless for you. You may switch jobs and recreate your lifestyle many times for the sake of change.

The Psychology of Being a Star:

You have so much confidence in your vision that not only do you feel you stand out, but also think that you are highly inspirational and will have many distinctive contributions to this world. This is the psychology of being a ‘star’. No matter if you are an actor, a politician, a painter or anyone with a futuristic view, this feeling brings the obligation of displaying an exemplary personality. You may not be famous yet still be an influential figure in your own circles, affecting the lives of people around you. This gives you strength because you have a very particular personality. Life will eventually challenge you by surfacing your inner reasoning that leads you to stand out in a crowd. Not everyone can be so original and individualistic yet you certainly have a courageous personality.

The prejudiced and vicious side of you that you have ignored or suppressed would not have attempted any of your courageous actions in fear of being an outcast.

If life was an act, everyone would be players and you the lead. You want to play the role of the hero. Under the image of the lead actor, there is a much more modest and ordinary shadow personality. This person, as I’ve said above, depends on the approval and love of others and is interested in mystical and spiritual concepts. If you accept your own shadow, you can see beyond menial duties and find places in which you can serve a greater purpose. You are both more extraordinary and ordinary than you think. Your nice, dull, modest shadow becomes your connection to humanity and cures your feelings of loneliness, emptiness and isolation. It gives you the sensation that you are serving a greater purpose in this lifetime. The side of your shadow that represents your ordinary aspects is actually your utmost strength.

The insecurity end feeling of loneliness that lies beneath the active imagination, intelligence and confidence:

You need to find a way to express your active imagination. This can be via arts, a job or an eclectic lifestyle. You will not be satisfied by using your creativity in the dull world that brings you down.

I do not know if you are involved in the arts, yet the fact that your job field may not be labeled as an ‘art’, should not detain you from being creative in it. If you want to be seen and admired, you can add a sense of discipline and patience to your creativity and become a very successful businessman.

You may actually feel that you are constantly alone and an outcast because you have difficulties expressing certain aspects of your shadow.

Your early childhood experiences have impaired the development of your self confidence. Thus you have created a character particular to you and an inner world to escape from the outside world that does not understand and value you as much as you’d expect. Feelings of loneliness and inferiority complexes lie beneath your hardship in accepting yourself as you are. The mundane expectations of your surroundings have hurt you, and made you feel that your surroundings are unfriendly.

The Sensitivity and Romanticism that is the shadow of a direct and natural personality:

You do not drag on, you are straight forward, open and honest, you do not hide behind any social masks. You have no patience for roundabouts; you say everything in a straight forward manner. You are someone that people intuitively trust, because there is nothing wrong with you, what you see is what you get.

The secret dimension of this direct and natural side of yours is a result of your sensitive and romantic personality. This part of you strives to be well educated in the eyes of others, intellectual, to go to places that should be seen, read books that should be read, watch movies that should be watched and complete with a sense of style and sophistication. It is difficult to integrate the desires of your shadow in your level of consciousness in this lifetime, but if you understand what an esthetically sophisticated world means to you, you can live for the things you value and would cleanse yourself from your clumsy and vulgar qualities.

FAMILY CIRCLES

The family is a living organism and all family members carry distinctive qualities from generation to generation. The psychological dynamics of your family forms the atmosphere of your childhood and this is a very important factor in our adult life. Astrology can not pinpoint the qualities coming from our genes, but instead it focuses on our psychological inheritance coming from our unconscious. Your parents and close relatives are distinctively seen in your birth chart and their influences on your way of thinking can be observed. When you are able to bring the differences between your family heritage and own nature to your conscious, you will be able to make healthier decisions with your free will.

Family ties:

You may have struggled between being close to your family and being yourself, and because you have chosen the later a part of you misses strong family ties. Do not criticize people who are attached to their families because a part of you is most likely jealous of them. Try to express this need in you more openly. When you face this side of you, you will find that you are living the desires of your parents in your unconscious. You were already doing this without notice in order to obtain the love of others. Yet, the more you have tried and achieved something; you were liked less and less. This is because love should be felt towards your own indigenous personality, not your achievements. If you find this kind of love, you would not feel fooled.

The father (or the father figure in your life) is not only a non-fictional figure but also someone who will influence your perspective throughout your life. The father image portrayed in a birth chart tells us three things.

The most distinctive aspects of your life with your father
The male symbol in your mind: since your father is the first male in your life, the male aspects in you (anima in women) and relationships you have with other men are formed by this father image.
Aspects of being a father: How you organize your life and how you chose and achieve your goals. How you phrase your desires, identify your moral values and in men-what kind of a father you are to your own children.

Lack of support form father:

The placement of your father in the star constellation is a bit complicated; he does not seem to be in a very supportive position. There are various reasons to why you can not reach him, either he has not been with you physically or he has been very introverted, distant, weak, cold and unhappy. This case might have forced you to fulfill the father figure you have longed for, with an imaginary father figure. This may bring you confusion in your self respect, and you might be dependent on the approval of others in your adult life.

You have acquired many qualities that you should normally inherit from your father, on your own and thought yourself how to be a father. We normally gather the determination we need to use all our potential and have the will to use our skills to accomplish something worthwhile from our father image, but you have established them on your own.

Since you have not had a strong father figure in your childhood, you have imagined that someone or something will suddenly come into existence to provide you the strength that you need to accomplish your goals. These alternatives to the father figure have eventually let you down because in reality to accomplish what you want you need to make use of your inner resources. To overcome this problem you need to detach yourself from your melancholy and disappointment and accept your father as a fragile person that can make mistakes. You should not expect him to be perfect. In reality what the father figure you don’t have due to lack of physical presence or emotional support, gives you whole values you already have within. The father image only brings them forth.

Appreciation of intellect

You have inherited your father’s respect of intellect and this gives your intelligence vision and depth. Your father may have supported your education and development of intellect, yet neglected your emotional needs. Although you may be getting mixed signals from your father, your heart is just as important as your mind. You should balance your emotional life with your high standards.

Your father’s shadow

Beneath your fathers caring image on the surface, there is a conflicting shadow side in him as well. This shadow is aggressive, angry and competitive and is one that does not make any concessions for others’ needs. Because of his moral standards and desire to avoid conflict, your father has not displayed these qualities openly. You are not fully or partially aware of this side of him and therefore may not have understood its effects on you. You fear being as aggressive and angry as he does and want to seem in harmony and pleasing to others. You have to understand this side of your father very well because you carry the same determined and strong personality yourself. You have the power to steer this creative energy in the direction. You are a natural leader. You have to find a balance between your emotional side and your aggressive personality and desires. If you understand this aggressive side of yours you may obtain many things you long for and will achieve the balance that your family has not been able to achieve for multiple generations.

The mother, like the father is not only a person but also an important symbol that influences our inner dynamics. The mother figure portrayed in our birth chart tells us three things.

The most distinctive aspects of your life with your mother. You probably know most of the qualities your mother reflects yet the unspoken inner world of your mother has a great influence on you.
The mother image displays the feminine within (animus in men). It is our emotional and intuitive side as well as what shapes our relations with other women.
The motherly qualities you have within- taking care of and protecting yourself and others, sense of security and faith in life, being able to adapt to the present and conditions, knowing when to stop and wait intuitively, maturely handling strains of life, in women- being a mother to their children.

Emotionally unstable mother

As displayed in your birth chart, no matter how rational and under control she seems, your mother can be quite unstable. Her impact on your childhood and youth is very important. Most likely you feelings have mixed in with the unstable atmosphere of your household. You were not able to distinguish whether what you feel is actually her feelings or your own.

There are a lot of positive aspects in your relationship with your mom. Her emotional intensity has passed onto you and you have inherited feelings of sensitivity and responsibility from her. The more conscious you are of your fluctuating emotions, the more control you will have over them. The importance of your mother’s opinions in your childhood has developed as the need to hear what others have to say. If your environments does not give you the answers you expect, you may at times doubt yourself. You should learn how to trust your own intuitions as they are already very strong.

Your mother must be someone very strong and ambitious yet her upbringing has suppressed her masculine attributes. As a result she may be reflecting her anger by manipulating people around her and criticizing others. You have inherited your competitive side and desire to become someone important in life from your mother. Yet keep in mind that blind ambition will only make you a workaholic that neglects the needs of others.

You have to face your own jealousy and competitiveness dilemma. Your mother’s vicious energy may lead her to be jealous of your strengths, which may surface by her acting aggressive towards you. If such harsh actions are at hand, you must be having a negative reaction to people who are jealous or in awe of you. At the same time, you should have learned how to suppress your competitive instincts aggressive behavior. Your temper is another side you have inherited from your mother and you do not express your anger as healthily as your mother.

Yet in summary you have a very positive mother image that is full of energy. As you realize what she has not been able to express, you will see the strong personality in you.

RELATIONSHIPS

Since your inner world rules your love life and other relationships, I will try to explain your expectations from a relationship below.

The bridge role of the partner

Because of your pride and unwillingness to cooperate with others it is advisable for you to be with someone that will accept you are. You have a lot to contribute to a relationship and in return your partner should satisfy your needs of socialization and want of belonging that come from your unconscious. Your loved one should be able to become a bridge between you and others. He is most likely more successful than you are in adapting to society. Yet someone like this may also make you seem inadequate in social circles and you might resent this. If you do not become aware of this quality of yours, you may become more hurtful and possessive over time. You are more jealous than you might think.

Do not underestimate the sacrifices a loved one is making for you and resent them for it, if you had not been so proud and scared of being humiliated, you would have done the same for them. You should not belittle them for any reason, because no matter how it seems from the outside, they are not as dependent on others as you are.

Jealousy problem

You are relying to heavily on one source of support instead letting your family support you. You have a hidden fear of being rejected and always doubt the affection of others for you. You constantly demand emotional, verbal and material confirmation to show you that you are loved. This could have originated from your childhood; deep within, you have come to the conclusion that love is unreliable. No matter how happy a relationship you have, in your unconscious, you are expecting disappointment.

You get into two particular kinds of relationships.

Someone who is weaker than you
Someone you see inferior to you financially, intellectually, socially or in terms of creativity.

Both alternatives may end with disappointment. You may even not have found the person that you are looking for yet. You want your partners attachment to be stronger to you than yours is to them. This kind of a relationship could last long, yet would this be a true relationship?

Meaning of love

You should have figured that love is not like it is in fairytales and that emotions can become quite complex. When you fall in love, you may have feelings of hate towards your partner as much as you are impressed by them

You may fall in love with someone you cannot reach in your lifetime (Either they will be unavailable emotionally, married, or living far away). You believe in love at first sight yet the person you will have this kind of a relationship with will not readily be available to you. They are usually found at the wrong place and wrong time. To face your fears and understand your past is crucial for you. That you have not been loved in the past does not mean you will not be loved in the future.

Although you do not show any particular effort to do so, you do not fear getting into relationships that others would consider extraordinary, dark or dangerous.

You have the ability to understand your partner’s feelings even when you are most angry and hurt, and you even show a secret sympathy to the situations that have brought this upon them. In short, you are not naïve, although you expect much of a relationship, you would prefer a profound and complex one to one that is shallow.

Love of excess

Your motto in love is the more the better. A lot of romanticism, candlelight, loving words and many lovers are good for you. You may call this a ‘we shouldn’t own each other’ philosophy or make yourself believe that you are in search of your soul mate or even may simply not esthetically pleased with your present partner. You can be honest with yourself and admit you like variety. Yet you have to keep in mind that not having a steady relationship will have its consequences. It is not that you do not love anyone or cannot be attached, but like I said, you like abundance and put yourself forth. At the same time a side of you strives for adventure and you are very idealistic when it comes to love.

No matter how strong it may be no relationship can stay mysterious and passionate to the end. For this reason you should go on vacations and romantic getaways with your partner to escape household responsibilities, and should not take them for granted. If not, you may stay loyal to your partner because of your pride and ideals this loyalty may not be in alignment with what you truly feel. You should at least stay loyal to your restless and adventurous side. You can have a proper and stable relationship and find many ways to live your adventurous personality as well, you do not have to cheat or let your partner down in doing so.

BECOMING ONE WITH YOUR ‘SELF’:

What will be touched upon in this section will aid you in balancing your qualities that have been described above and make a short voyage to the center of your self. The choices you have made beyond your potentials that have been described does not make you someone other than who you truly are. Yet, if you live the choices you’ve made in collaboration with parts of your conscious you will not feel inferior and victimized in difficult situations.

Two very close people may have the same astrological configurations (i.e. twin sisters) yet while one gets carried away by their inner storms, the other will remain strong and stable. The trick to this is being grounded and balanced. Understanding parts of your ‘self’ will give you the balance you need.

You won’t be successful if you rely on the material accumulation only to satisfy yourself. I don’t tell you material values you own is meaningless to you but you’re not yet feel satisfied internally. Also you have to deal with the attitude that tries to control everything around. In fact you have a goal at hand. That is to know you real self and improve your inner life. Once you achieve this you will find the confidence and respect for self. This can be a real opportunity as well as a challenge for you. Since you have a desire of doing things on your own way, you will be able to display your character without your anxieties and shyness.

If you want to build the connection with your inner self, you have to start dealing with the emotional inheritance from the family you grew up. You may start understanding their importance on your core being and deal with the problems that you experienced with them. This will help your attitude toward living their desires instead of yours. All you wanted was their love but as you accomplish things, it is as if they love you less, isn’t it. That is because the love must be towards yourself not your accomplishments. That is the only way how you won’t feel deceived.

You must be very confused on the definition of individuation and the path towards your whole self. Your ideals and honor was very important to you on conscious level. On the other hand, your unconscious says individuation is not being different from others or achieve something solid in life. These are the two facets of life, one completes the other to become a whole.

I would think, in this course of individuation you’d follow a rather mystical path. This path will not be the following orthodox ideas of common religions rather, it will be alternative ways to achieve inner piece and understanding like meditation in nature. There is always an option of getting professional help from a therapist to understand the undercurrents of your family life with your parents. But at least you must be willing to accommodate these into you busy daily life.

You belief to your fate is very solid which gives you a calm mind. Although you think you live with your own rules right now, learning the rules of your whole self will take a life long learning and practice.

NEXT STEP:

We took a short tour to the conscious and unconscious sides of your psyche. Your horoscope is not an indicator of your fate in a predestined way. Rather, it helps to outline the basic lines of your character’s potential development. You shape your life according to your needs, fears, and abilities which stems from this character.

The influence of the planets or stars to your fate is achetypal, that is, it is a symbolic explaination of the position of heavens at a particular moment of time, by reflecting the qualities of that moment. Any individual, relationship, idea, company that is born in that moment is affected by the qualities of that same moment. In that regard, if we can interpret the position of your birth chart relative to the observable planets we can conclude an idea how those energies will affect your life in the future. You can use TRANSIT ANALYSIS for short, medium, long term potentials involving your life.

Relationships, among other things, is an important vehicle to know our true self. Just as we see our outer self when we look at a mirror, we can look into a relationship and see our inner dimension since we project our unconscious to the other person in a relationship. Another component of the relationship is that it creates a third energy totally independent from the energies of the two people entering into a relationship. We can use astrological knowledge to interpret of this new energy and gain more knowledge about your true self with the RELATIONSHIP ANALYSIS.

After the birth chart analysis, you can always come back to me with your one or two questions related to the new developments in your life through MINI CONSULTATION.

You can give the birth chart analysis as a GIFT to your friends and loved ones.

For 16 year olds and under you can order CHILD ANALYSIS to be a better support for your kids by knowing their potentials, fears and growth areas.

Sincerely,

Pelin


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